Keep it sexy and playful: Have you ever over heard those conversations where there is a group of ladies sitting or a group of men discussing how things have become the same old boring thing? They’re stuck in a rut with no idea how to drag themselves out, sex has gotten boring… It’s something that everyone goes through at one point or another.

This happens so often let’s go over some things we could do to change this outcome

Lingerie! Now I know the men will assume this is for the ladies only, but there is plenty of men’s lingerie in the world. We find it just as sexy as you find ours!Both of you go and grab some sexy fun items like there are pretty amazing lingerie pieces out there for women and men here is just a few items from ENVY for men, get ready to look and feel like a stripper in your own home.We also have the fetish range, which isn’t as intense as it sounds, just a bit of fun!

Keep It Sexy and Playful

Its so much more fun and exciting if you go shopping separately and surprise each other that night with a bit of a sexy show and tell. Or even shop for each other, it’s so exciting seeing what your partner would put you in to feel and look sexy! Come on guys you need to put the effort in too and while you’re in store look for some extra fun sex toys or items or games to play.

There are so many to choose from in store you just need to get your self down to the store and check out the variety. Ladies its really important to step out of that comfort zone so many relationships sit in this zone. This is why those very conversations happen. Yeah everything has just become same old same old stop letting that happen get up and change it. We cater for all sizes diva, queen ,3x to 4x

Where to start?

Well how about complimenting each other its such a simple gesture. But yet we also forget to do once we are in that comfort zone with our partners. We can compliment appearance, what you think they’re doing well at. Obviously you can also tell them what makes them sexy in your eyes. Everyone loves to be complimented. Sometimes when you’ve been with someone for a while, we forget to do the simple things that make each other feel good.

Take control and go and buy some flowers or their favourite chocolates or whatever that favourite meal is you enjoy together. Now set up the table with some candles take a breath. Make it a romantic sexy night starting right from the moment you greet each other.

Talk about each other’s days (or don’t 😉). Flirt with each other like you’ve just started dating again. The way you treated each other during that chase is often what goes missing after awhile and what can help the most.

If you want to make it even more sexy try some candles that melt into massage oils. Take it an extra step and make sure they’re edible too. Massage, kiss, and lick your way through all of your partners most sensitive areas, candles aren’t just there to look good and smell pretty!

Make sure you have put that same effort into the bed room

Some rose petals all over the bed. Grab the fake ones so much easier to pick up and place back in their box after wards ready to use again. Not only does this bring some added sexiness to the night. But the extra effort really will make your partner feel important and loved.

Try sexy roleplaying scenario’s if you want to really do something quirky but sexy. There’s so many to choose from, classic school girl, an office scenario. Ask your partner their fantasy scenes. Tell them yours, you can get creative with this one. Hell you can remake your favorite movies if you want to!

And just have fun with it

if you’re not into roleplay then that’s fine too, as long as your partner can see that you’re trying and putting in the effort to spice things up you’ll get far. Sometimes effort is the sexiest thing you can do.  If all else fails just sit down with your partner and have an open chat about what you want, what would make you feel more sexy, things you want to try, and vice versa.

After all, you can’t fix things without knowing where to start for both you and you can always heat things up.